Who will save you?


Who will save you?

I believe nobody is going to save you, we are who we choose to be and if we need saving we need to save ourselves. Nobody in this world is just going to give you what you need. You are going to have to go out there and fight for or work hard for that what you want. 

In the end nobody knows what you want except you. You know what you want and need and you have to go and get it. If you sit back and wait for whoever to come along and give you your dreams, you will be sorry. 

You will be sorry that all the chances you had to make that dream a reality you wasted on hoping for your "prince charming" or "miracle worker" to save you or hand you that job or give you the money or car. Sitting back and waiting or feeling sorry for yourself for not having things fall in your lap makes you weak. It makes you complacent. 

No one owes you anything but you owe it to yourself to get up and fight for what you want. Stand up and shake off that feeling of pity and low self esteem
and show the world your dreams are worth fighting for. 

There are no statue of limitations on starting over and re-inventing yourself to be the better you. Let go of the idea that you must always be who you have always been...

Till later
Hester

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